You were perfect. But, you still are. I can’t speak for all men, but it’s not the size of a woman’s breasts, but their naturalness, individuality that appeals. Of the women, who won my heart, one was “flat” as you say, but she had great nipples, and she was beautiful, brilliant. I felt so intimidated by her. The second too was relatively flat, but again she was more beautiful than I could imagine, and the third surprised me, where her breasts went straight out and seemed to defy gravity. All the women I have loved were seemingly smarter than I was and they were more beautiful than I could have imagined a woman being before they appeared. We had chemistry and I admired them. I think women objectify themselves and partial out their physicality more than men do. The women I loved had everything. I am often surprised by women. Modifying one’s body implies a lack of self-confidence. That is a key factor in attractiveness. You didn’t need to change a thing about you, but even doing so will still attract a man.