You look like Jennifer Garner, which is probably no consolation and does not address the issue of your burden, and I am sorry for that. My sister says boobs are just fat. If you can, you might try running, which is what I do to make my muscles taut. At 61, I am always battling my belly. It churns inside and protrudes out. You could use it as a shelf to display my grandmother’s china or carry the neighbor’s dog. I love your writing. Your brain’s working. I am trying to determine if I’ll be an angry or a blank Alzheimer’s patient. Everything is running downhill.