Yes, as Tracy said, this is one person's perspective. And that person, while having a preference, is basically irrelevant. They don't matter. And to explain this, if I said I liked your boobs as they were and that felt weird because you don't even know me, and you could care less about what I thought, then you would understand my point. You want to be with someone, who likes your boobs as they are. In fact, you want them to like everything about you, and you want to like them too. I think you really liked this person and that's why he made such an impression that hurt you. You are always going to be good enough for the person, who wants you. The question becomes, who do you want?