Women are so wise. I think you know and you have the power to know. After all, biologically you need to know because if you are going to have kids. You need someone to help you. Men want to love the women they are with, but we often can’t attract them. But, there have been women, who knew. Three of them, but they also heard of my rampant complaining about work; that’s another “thing” a woman can hear. I think generally as it comes to work, Capitalism and that we have to barter our bodies makes men nervous about commitment. It seems to me at least, that men sense being trapped between a wife, who wants to have children and be cared for, a mindless, unsatisfying job that barely pays, the customer that makes painful demands, and a boss who is constantly demanding more. Love for a man is to consider himself a “thing” too, his purpose in life’s a thing he has no control over.