When I first read the title, I said to myself, you cannot have “bad” sex, it’s bad when you are with someone who doesn’t turn you on. For men, apparently, we lead the activities. We work toward the person we want and if we don’t get her we refrain. But, here I am getting that a lot of what you don’t want is kept under cover. The biting, the circling the drain, the anal wonder. Men, it seems, take what they want and women complain. Women may have to be less passive aggressive and more aggressive about what they want. Sex is a dance of two people, who don’t read minds. And women can be silent in negotiations, getting their revenge in the early out. Years later you get the truth. I say, spill the beans. Put it all on the table. After all, it’s safe to assume that both parties are there for more than the fun of it. We all want intimacy and longevity. It speaks to our egos and not to be lonely. I know I would do what it takes. But, I think, there is so much pressure on sex, it’s like a rubber band that snaps and strikes the sensitive spots. You wait for the “right” one, but she never comes, because, it isn’t about sex, or love, or anything about two bodies, but money and rep, the five-year plan, family, and guns. For me, it’s just about the woman. For them, it’s just about the coin. I am just laundry, the cycle, the wash. So, I drop the quarters and look through the circle as the world turns.