This reminds me of my first experience at a night club with mixed gender bathrooms, which was in the 80’s. I still felt the need to be completely respectful of women there. They chose the stalls and the men usually stood against the urinals, while they made eye contact in the mirrors at women, who were curious. It was fun. And everyone I saw was not intrusive. I don’t think people went #2 if they could help it. Everyone was on their best behavior because the bathroom was now a place you might meet someone.