This is an important subject in that at least for me, I try not to get in bed with someone I am not passionate for. Hence, I usually come. Lately, as I get older, I am having to take less than what I truly want to a point where, I don’t even bother. And so I have never understood a woman not getting what she wants or settling for less. For a man, it is often visual, then how a woman smells, and what she says or values because the future is considered. Is this someone I can grow with? Because I know sex is not enough. But, I make my own money, I keep myself occupied. I am independent less the desire for intimate sex with a woman I find I am safe with. Men, in general, are far less likely to fake an orgasm because they have a far more direct reason for engaging in the first place. We don’t ask this question until or if our members can no longer perform.