This creates an image akin to a man, a cup or something like it, and chewing tobacco. Are you laying across his lap, bottom up, while Gold Miners or Moonshine is on TV? I cannot imagine this. It seems so foreign to how I feel when I am with someone I want to have sex with. Spitting on someone you are sexually aroused by seems antithetical to love-making. It feels degrading. How did it make you feel? Was it a form of lubricant? What was his intent?