Thank you for weighing in. No one can read my mind and so I have to defer to how women feel about me and respect that no matter what decisions I make internally, it is not about me. I am reacquainting myself with articles like Tara Blair Ball’s “Is she flirting with you? How to tell if She’s interested” because I thought I couldn’t tell if a woman was interested in me, but as I am sure I demonstrate when interested in someone, there are fairly clear indications of like and dislike. We have to get out of our heads and into theirs. It is not about what we want, which of course, again this assumes you are a cis-gendered female.