Thank you for this Ms. Rane. I am very interested in whether or not I am selfish, but my close friends say that I am generous. I feel like I need to get a job, where I don't complain so often, however, and this makes me feel selfish, selfish in the sense that I am not risk-taking when it comes to work, but a close friend today said that he thought I should really question whether or not I want to leave a fairly decent job in this economy. It gives me a lot of time to be me.