She should have left him forthwith. Anyone who complains about the person they are with is not interested. Dismiss oneself immediately! That goes for both parties. If you don’t like something leave! If something about you is not liked leave! Why? Because that is only the beginning. This dislike stems from the other person’s projection. They don’t like themselves. How can vaginal alterations change that? How ridiculous that someone’s labia minora was offensive?