Now that I have read a couple of pieces by you, Ms. Martinez, I am as smitten as Jerry. And while, I don't have $50,000 to spend, I would say that you are worth far more. You are worth the kind of money that is simply given without strings or as an insult to your husband. If you love someone, you never ask them to do something that might hurt the ones they love. And if you love someone, you never stand in their way.