Ms. Waterhouse, I understand that you didn’t want to be in a relationship just for sex. But, I see this as a mismatched sex drive. To qualify or regulate affection seems odd, but I understand your position and feelings. I once encountered this and felt I had to be someone other than who I was. I knew it wasn’t going to work. Maybe I should have just gone on a lot of walks or took cold showers. Instead, the relationships eventually ended. When I look back, I would have gotten a lot more sex than if I remained single. Maybe a compromise is better than nothing.