Ms. Blue, being scammed is not a good thing. You advocate an alternative, which is a false option because and I am sure this is obvious to you as well, when I talk about the false affection of women, where they sell themselves, for whatever reason, but which has nothing to do with normal affection, why would a man find this satisfying? Sex work is a slap in the face of true desire and affection. Men don’t want to be used and they certainly don’t want the women they care about to feel like they have to lie about their feelings. This ultimately degrades women. Where women have to sell themselves to survive or thrive speaks to an economic system that is morally bankrupt.