Mr. Sama, this phrase is absolutely beautiful: "You don't 'fall' in love. You build it alongside the person you choose to spend your life with." I have a crush I haven't seen for years. I wanted to spend my life with her, and I realize this is a kind of 'falling' in love with someone, but I also know of what you speak. I just haven't found the person, who I and they want to spend a life with. But, you really nailed the sentiment and the 'strength' of couples, who endure. I just want to send you tremendous respect and admiration for articulating that sentiment exactly. Thank you! You are valuable.