Men were told, at least when I was young, that they had to support their wives, who would have children. Men were the breadwinners. Now, as the money leaves the middle class and manufacturing has all but stopped, women vs. men are in a 60/40 ratio going on to graduate school, etc. Men don’t have a right to seduce women. They cannot support them. In other words, sex is dishonest, in that a lot of men are short-sighted and just seek immediate gratification and will tell women what they want to hear knowing full-well that they are not going to fulfill their obligations.