It sounds like a perfect scenario in our porn society, where women in porn are being fu#ked by other porn actors and in a sense, the thing that turns a man on is someone, even his girlfriend, getting it on with another man.

Maybe it's about seeing himself in the other person, taking a few pointers, seeing how you are getting it and enjoying it. It's like a good novel or a movie.

It could also be a test for him, or a true act of love, trying to allow you to fulfill yourself.

Somebody on here was talking about how she ran away from a sex party, and I followed the thesis and thought about my own similar experience, and I reasoned finally that I should have stayed and I really regretted it. The reason is becuase I really wanted to be there. I was attracted to, at least, two women and had I been allowed to see if they felt the same, I might have built a truer sense of self, rather than the gentleman, who inevitably pissed my girlfriend off at the time because she wanted to stay so she would know what it would be like for her sons, who were 5 and 7 at the time, when they grew up.

It really tests if you two belong together. It kind of really speaks to love and I mean that in a freeing and glorious way. I think you should try it. After all, this life is about you just as it is about him.

Imagine if you two melt in each other's arms after you have been with another man and at some point too, if you and he come together after he wants to be watched by you.

Relationships have to be much deeper than mere sexual encounters or fears of extra-relational encounters, I think. Fear is not a good sign. But, neither is satisfication with what exists, until, I guess it is not.

Your life is constantly moving and changing. Today, it is this question, tomorrow it will be another question. I am sure the next time I enter a relationship I am going to say: "If in the course of this relationship, you ever have the desire to sleep with another man that you would do so and you need not tell me. My love for you implies my granting you complete freedom to do and be whom you want. That, to me, is what love is about. And I will be there to catch you or talk to you, whatever you need, because I love you and I am dedicated to you."

Let us know what happens and how you feel, if you care to share that with us.