I would want to know if I was succeeding with a woman. I have known strong women, who would mention techniques that I hadn’t thought of, like licking the clitoris and rubbing her g-spot at the same time. While it was a bit awkward, I learned something amazing. I pleased her. She was very vocal and I miss her. Women need to be confident that it doesn’t hurt our feelings to tell us what you want. It relieves us. We want to make you happy.