I was going to say that while women will automatically lubricate at the onset of being raped and it may seem like they are turned on, but they are not. They are horrified. Their bodies protect them. But, I was thinking that men who are not attracted to a woman generally do not get erect. Other things like fear of disease, an unwelcome smell, the situation, the fact that they know the woman doesn't really like them, etc. can turn a guy off. Maybe men can turn themselves on by the thought of taking one for the family. I have had some of those opportunities to increase the quality of my family's life and it doesn't work. I married into a wealthy family and realized how hard it was to keep her in the lap of luxury she had been accustomed: "I would like you to buy me a Cadillac." I think at that time, I was driving a car for which I had to replace the driver's side front seat with a seat from another type of car. It was a Plymouth Champ, a very small car with lots of problems, apparently. That was not long before I literally ran out of money, and she had always wanted to have children. She didn't rape me. I was just unqualified to be married in the first place. I am still commenting on the articles I read rather than writing them, and I still can't seem to get behind the wheel of a Toyota. My latest car was a two-year-old, least likely to succeed, FIAT 500L, which they stopped making. Thank God, I have only had to replace the lights over and over again and nothing major has happened. Rape? Nobody's going to rape me. I am like that pregnant stray dog on the sidewalk with like twenty teets shaking when I walk, mange, dehydration, skin and bones, absolutely powerless and born to be alone. My ambition rapes me each day; I am an artist in a Capitalistic world. I do wish I could afford a wife.