I want to comment on how important this point is. It speaks to the veracity of desire by the men, who were speaking from the heart, but also they were inherently also speaking with an intent to persuade to seduce, perhaps even heartless/self-centeredly. That activity is only acceptable when the other party is receptive, but even so, the action may be unsavory because of how base, presumptuous, it is. But, more importantly, desire cannot trump the lack of desire on the party of you two, recipients, of the come on.

This is so important, and I believe new, of women, to come forth and declare their privacy from unwanted attention, and we men, have to allow and support this point of view/position.

There is a very good article here on Medium, which talks about how to tell if a woman is receptive and even so, it is a continuous evaluative process, and one that men must now embrace and practice, for the simple reason that women deserve to be left alone and free to feel as comfortable as men in society. After all, they too have certain inalienable rights.

Men have been blind, completely selfish, and women have been fairly silent and until recently sacrificial and tolerant, but in their world male domination is violent and deadly. We need, as a society, to get to a place, where women feel as free and as safe as men do.