I think this is an important consideration in the sense that men, who are often in positions of power to investigate rape may project their own defenses when handling these matters to an extent that they circumnavigate inquiry by imposing themselves upon the matter rather than simply looking at the facts. As far as I am concerned the whole issue of male empathy for other men as well as the seeming veracity of desire itself as some kind of justification for imposing upon women is key. A woman’s feeling of imposition is all that matters. Until men step way back and simply let women make the first move and let them lead and do this for a long time, male habits will not be broken. An HR director once said, “You can ask someone to coffee once, and if they say ‘No,’ that’s it!” That’s as close as men should get. We have to dial back flirtation way back. Rape shouldn’t ever happen.