I think it’s built in for some personalities, nurtured in others, and perhaps being raised by women, I am masochistically actionable but somewhat outspoken as a devil’s advocate, because I do know how violent men can be. I once told a lover that if a group of such men wanted to rape her, I would run to get the police, but realistically I know I would have delayed them with a crazy dance and then attempted to take them on in sacrifice. They would use me as a means to show their strength, like survival of the fittest to attract their mate. And as all animals do, I would submit because I would be physically beaten. We are just talking. In wars to come, “weakness” (civility) is purged, and rape is a card game. And so in this case I agree with you that patriarchy is present, but it is more like Universal language theory.