I think a healthy human being, gender irrelevant, is someone who enjoys their beauteous soul magnified by positive experience and accomplishment tied to doing things they truly love. An example of this is when I play music. I feel like I can share what my soul feels and wants to communicate. My confidence in this state is something that makes me feel good about myself and thus I can love others, sit here and reassure you. People should never take advantage of another in the sense that once they know the ambition is not shared, they must back off and apologize, withdraw all apparently damaging products and effects. Healthy male behavior is self-sacrificing and protective. Women should feel safe and free.