I tend to be too good of a listener. I do love the idea of open questions. And more importantly, questions should lead to a series of questions that deal with things people would need to know when living together. I read those questions here on Medium (See: https://medium.com/hello-love/the-three-steps-before-you-move-in-together-e5a3cbdbe02). I never wanted to have children and it turned out that this was what broke my best relationship.