I stopped when you said: "Greater numbers of men...are delusional about their appearance or what they have to offer." I think what is good about Tinder, and other apps, is that you just keep picking people you are attracted to and then if someone likes you, it clicks. I don't think men need to be qualified as looking good, because they will look good to someone. I also didn't think women were so superficial. I also wonder about the who "what someone has to offer" thing. What are men supposed to offer? It should be about two people whose imperfections align to make a good fit. Beauty or handsomeness says nothing about who they are as people.