I read this and thought I would stop early. I loved the truth in men not sleeping with people, who don’t work on themselves. As a poet and writer, I try to get better everyday and at this point that’s all that matters. I have had a girlfriend since October and she is a perfect person, but I am disappearing by not running or creating and I feel the relationship is not sustainable. I have to be me even though I realize that I will miss the only thing outside of myself, which is sex. Maslow predicts this infinite circle. When you don’t satisfy a need it rears it’s ugly head until it’s satisfied.