I loved the writing in this piece. It is so well-written that it is wonderful to read. Thank you. I go to a hot spring, where clothing is optional and frankly I don’t look at women’s breasts or whatever. It’s no different than looking at women with clothes on. There is a natural expectation of not violating. Sexual harassment is not tolerated. Women are very aware of the male gaze. They can feel it without looking. This will give women power and release the stigma. I also remember a large unisex bathroom in Honolulu in the 80’s that thrilled me. Women used the stalls and watched us out of the corner of their eyes. We used the urinal as they stood in front of the mirror. It was a lot of fun. I think if someone had taken a dump however, we would have all fallen down and laughed uncontrollably.