I like this fact. Yes, true intimacy, you letting them be themselves sexually is a type of acceptance that they probably fear outside of that context. Love is often about being yourself and being loved for it. And they know they are having to pay, but successful men may think that they can “buy you out” of your circumstances. And this is perhaps because men can’t just sleep with anyone. Their penises don’t work when there is no attraction. He is also attracted to you because you know him, you really know him. I like you simply because you know. That’s incredibly sexy and it makes you desirable. It is a type of intelligence that sets you apart, which is not to say that women don’t already possess this knowingness. We know you do. You knew it the first time a man looked at you too long or intrusively.