I hate to say it but men can see through the make-up. We are drawn to types of women, who possess aspects, hopefully good, about our mothers. The whole of you is considered. But, I agree with you that make-up is like a mask you hide behind. We also consider the output implied by you. Can we afford you? What are your true motivations? Are we ever going to satisfy you? Are you going to really satisfy us, because we know that we have to make our own happiness. It has nothing to do with you.
#MeToo! has made us enemies, apparently, and yet we haven't even met. We don't know what has been happening to you, because the bad men don't share their handiwork. Women have been chasing bad guys and getting hurt, then they blame the good ones. That is what makes us think you are illogical. You know who the good guys are. "Choose loving, supportive circumstances and relationships."