I had an ex, who said she would never use dating apps. She didn’t have to. Guys were lining up to date here. But, as a shy person, I have never been able to walk up to someone I like and ask for a date. After a number of years working together, my ex had to email me. I had no idea she was interested. I was crazy about her. But, after all these years, dating apps didn’t do the trick either. I flounder at finding the right person.