I don’t think this is mutually exclusive. At least for me, I don’t sleep with someone I am not interested in physically and intellectually. I would certainly hope to be mindful of their emotions. In fact, as soon as I sense someone is not happy with me, I back off. I do remember being yelled at, which I hated, broke it off and then was later told that I seemed simply to have walked away. I said, “I thought in your explosion that you called it quits.” Again, I am single. There must be a good reason for it.