I completely agree with this. Both parties need to be aware of what they are truly after, and men, especially, need to explain why they are in front of the other person before there is a misunderstanding about expectations. Too much time is wasted by working toward sex, if that is the true motivation and yet the other person is interested in a long-term relationship, for example, involving children. So many things could be talked about at the initial meeting. It is such a shame people aren't honest with each other. But, I do feel that women are honest.