I am so sorry you went through this. I am thinking she was using you to help her friend, when what she should have done is perhaps asked you where you shop and nothing more. I am curious about your disease. I have been wanting to attract heavier women to join me on a walk/run that I do in Lafayette,CA in an effort to help them loose weight by being in a beautiful area and running as far as they can and building it up like I did. Now, I crave it even though it always remains tough. I had a heart attack, for example, and so now I try to stay in shape. Anyway, my concern and attention to you is that you have this disease. Does it respond to walking or running? Thank you for your story. It reminds me of people who struggle with things that are not easily rectified but who are beautiful people. You sound like a wonderful person and you do not deserve to be put upon. Thank you.