I am not interested in reading further, but my estimation of you is someone of high IQ. I would get as soon as you can to a position of love and forgo accusations unless as Dr. Phil advised Oprah that she had better take the meatpacking industry seriously because they were coming for her and to protect herself. Follow the advice of council and get as far away from this as you can when you can. But deal with it seriously and don’t put yourself in harms way. It appears reputations are at stake and that means money lost. Unless you can afford, I would say take the seriously and stop providing ammunition for the other side, since there appears another way of looking at things.