I agree with you. I have loved three women, who I had crushes on. Yes, they were all beautiful. I sometimes blame my requirements for beauty on the fact my mother was a beauty queen. While I ended up marrying one of my crushes, I felt inadequate the whole time. I could have loved them all until the end of my life, but they didn't give me the opportunity. The first one, wasn't just pretty. She had two master's degrees by the time she was 23 and ran her father's business. The second one remains attractive to me and her weight fluctuated. I honestly didn't care. I determined that it was because of pheromones and the way she made me feel. She was my type. I really loved being with her. The third one too, her voice, its cadence, how she walked, how she stood; she radiated refinement. I think women don't realize this, but I think men see them as equals, but then they have this other aspect of their beauty and looks, which they see as cherries on top of the already grand prospect of their humanity. But, sexual interest too is like a physiological reality. Men simply cannot get up if they aren't attracted. There's a big lie in trying and the flaccid fact they nor women can deny. I think the best thing we can do for society is to equalize men and women on financial terms, so that money isn't the criteria. Men and women should simply be considering if they like each other in terms of beliefs, attitudes, and values... Oh and pheromones and other things too. I don't even know what you look like, but I find you attractive. You write well. You write on subjects I care about. That's sexy. I am sure you are funny, kind, smart, and evolved. I would love to get to know you. I am sitting right here. Don't keep me waiting.