Exactly. There was a recent article that mentioned why someone might not be interested in sex, like being too tired, needing to poop, whatever, and any excuse counts and in fact no excuse counts. A woman is in charge of her body, not a man or even other women. I think we even need to go further and say that unless a woman initiates it, it cannot happen. Men should no longer be hitting on women. Maybe we need to change the whole process of courtship until it is a thing so that it is more mindful.