And so will women, but the kind of pain a woman inflicts is financial or rejecting. It’s not usually physically debilitating. Still, a woman can crush a man. There was a family law piece that talked about suicidal men. Women are important. Men love them and also fear them. Because they are so true. My mother gave me life and love. My father would have if he hadn’t died. People generally care. There is a general equality here.