Again, it’s clear he likes her and she knows it. Men realize they are being monitored. I made the mistake of not demanding that a woman I know and like come to me immediately. She was offended, but I thought she would hate that. (She is the smartest and most beautiful woman I know.) Turns out I was wrong. At least we are talking and I have told her that I love her, which of course is the ultimate no-no. I think it did affect her. The thing that bugs me is when we met she knew I was in love. She said she had to shut me down because she was with someone. I do like that my honesty was noticed. I will let you know how this turns out. It’s really frustrating if the woman I love doesn’t love and want me, because what’s the point? I don’t want to be with someone I don’t really like. That seems like a grand fail. Apex love or no love. That’s my philosophy.